Transform Your Life by Shifting Your Perspective: Tips and Strategies
Today, I wanted to talk about something that is quite important.
I want to talk about that one thing that you can do that can literally change your life today for the better.
And this is all about the importance of changing your perspective so that you can start winning in life.
You can also watch the video version of this. Or listen to the podcast version of this blog on all major podcast platforms.
And I have also attached the episode below.
Glass half Full or Half empty
I’m not kidding when I say that.
I do notice there’s a major difference between people who choose to live their life in accordance to that one thing versus those who just choose not to do that or who simply aren’t even aware of that.
So this is why it was very important for me to share this.
That number one thing we’re gonna get right into it is changing your perception.
Now, I know you’re like, what? Oh my God, no, no, no, no.
We’re not trying to do some woo woo.
It’s a very simple one.
But the idea behind it is just realigning yourself, doing like a mindset shift.
So in other word, what I’m trying to say is changing your perception when you go through life, choosing to see the positive, changes everything.
Nothing to do with Toxic Positivity
“No, we’re not talking about toxic positivity here.
You know, and also choosing to constantly reframing your mind.
Technically, it’s just reframing your mind all the time.
This, I noticed, is a difference between people who believe they can do that and people who believe they can’t.
Reframing Your mind Vs Victimhood
People who succeed and those who just, you know, are just stuck in that constant victim mindset that they just can’t get out of.
So the importance of shifting your mindset, choosing to change your perspective whenever life happens to you.
Let me give you an example.
Don’t sweat the small stuff
Let’s say, right, you are in the elevator.
Let’s say you’re waiting, you’re in your building, waiting for the elevator, right?
You press the little button, you’re waiting, you’re waiting.
You walk into the elevator, you say hi.
Oh, hi!
You’re in an amazing mood.
You just left your house. You knew you were gonna spend an amazing day.
You’re so happy, you’re ready to conquer the day.
And you just say hi to the first person you see, the second the doors open.
Then you enter the elevator and wait.
But then that person doesn’t, doesn’t say hi back. You know? WTF
Most of us will be cut up in that loophole of toxic mindset of, oh my God, they don’t like me. Oh, they’re rude. What?
Let go of What you can’t control
And then this would change your entire mood, your entire mindset.
Your entire mood is just changed just because you entered the elevator, you said hi, and that person didn’t reply to you.
You see where I’m going with this?
And then you go to your car and you’re like, what the hell?
Why didn’t that person reply to me? And then you drive to work and you’re like, what the fuck? Now you actually really, really annoyed.
Domino Effect
Next thing you know your coworker says hi to you.
Now you just annoyed, you’re not really in a good mood. Y
our mood has been totally destroyed just because of that initial interaction.
Now imagine if you walk in the elevator, right?
It’s same situation. You say, oh, hi. The person doesn’t reply.
Let Things go
“Instead of going down the spiraling negative thoughts, imagine you just reframe your mind and think, hold up, hold up, hold up.
Let me stop for a second. Maybe that person didn’t hear me.
Give them the benefit of the doubt
Or maybe that person has an earplug and you can’t even see that, and they’re listening to music.
Or maybe that person is, I don’t know, just deaf. 🤷🏽♀️
You get my point.
My point is, I realized that since I started living my life like that, everything got better.
You know, just getting into the habit of giving people the benefit of the doubt. No, it does not mean you let people walk all over you either.
Take your power back
What it means is that you take your power back.
You take your power back, and you just don’t give people as much power as perhaps you’ve once done.
You don’t give people that much power to so easily ruin your day. You don’t let them have such a hold on you.
And that’s something that you can apply in all aspects of your life, right?
Let’s say you have this goal that you really want to do. Like this business idea that you’re really working on.
Say no to negativity & Believe in yourself
But if you’re constantly caught up in the negative mindset, oh my God, I’ll never be good enough. “Can I do this? Can I not do that?”
It will quickly spiral down. It’s just a negative feedback. And you know the adage, “whether you believe you can and you can’t, you’re right?”
Well, it’s kind of the same principle here.
So you really have to believe in yourself. You have to just protect your mindset.
Always Reframe
Just choose to reframe things.
You can do this in everything in life.
Even if it doesn’t come natural to you, maybe you can say “you know what, I’m gonna try this today”.
Maybe you can say, “I’m gonna try to implement this this week”.
Give it a try and see how much it can change your life.
And I am not kidding when I say that.
Become magnetic
Another perk is that at the same time, you also become extremely magnetic.
You become attractive. People want to be around you.
The truth is most people like to be around positive people.
Isn’t this an attractive personality trait?
I think I’m going to have to do more series here on my blog, podcast and channel, because I truly love this topic.
I absolutely love it. So just to recap, right?
Reducing Stress
We need to change our mindset.
We need to just elevate ourselves and just stop always thinking about negative and going for the worst right away.
Let’s all reframe our mindset because it makes life better on a day-to-day.
It reduces stress and stops us from constantly thinking negatively.
I think this changes your life exponentially.
You become a nicer person
It can change your life once you start thinking that way.
You can apply it in every single, every single space in your life, every single area. And you become a nicer person.
Good mood & Domino effect
It uplifts your mood and makes you a fun person to be around.
And this can have a domino effect and gives you a much better return on life.
So I will leave this here for now, and I will definitely expand more on that a bit later.
Because you’re magic
I will like to leave you with my tagline from my podcast as a way to uplift your day.
“So this was my message for today. But before I go, remember my love, that you are a beautiful, unique creation, a masterpiece, one of a kind, and can never be duplicated. I wish you a nice day, and I will see you in the next podcast episode.”
💕
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