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Stef Barti at a Ubud waterfall springs

What Is Feminine Energy And How to Activate It?

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, feminine energy talk has been all over social media. And that is no coincidence.

My fellow ladies are burned out. We’re all tired from operating and overachieving in our fast paced society.

So it’s no wonder that more and more women are seriously looking to reconnect with their feminine energy.

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Just a girl trying to live her life to the fullest πŸ™‚

If you find yourself drawn to feminine energy and looking to make changes in your life. Look no further.

In this blog, we will talk about what exactly is feminine energy. Not only that but I will also give you actionable steps you can take today to connect with your own feminine energy.

Understanding Feminine Energy

What is Feminine Energy?

I know it might sound very complicated.

Stef barti in a Jungle in Bali
Absolutely magical Bali

But it really doesn’t have to be. Feminine energy might sound a bit sophisticated.

That said, in the most simple terms, it just comes that to your natural flow state.

Feminine energy is just ” being” whereas masculine energy encompasses the energy of “doing”.

That’s why when I make all my content, videos, podcast and Instagram content to help fellow women get in touch with their feminine energy.

Stef Barti and the girls attending brunch in Yerevan
queens slaying the fashion game πŸ™‚

Now we all have both feminine and masculine energy within ourselves. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a woman or a man.

So when we talk about feminine energy, we’re referring, again, to the Yin essence of flowing, of being deeply connected and rooted within one self. The energy of creation and flow.

Friendly Albanian girlies at ice cream parlour
The new generation is so friendly and total vibes check πŸ™‚

Moreover, I always emphasize that you already inherently are feminine energy at the source.

The feminine energy is also the Yin part in the Yin-Yang. Again, it’s the creative aspect, just being in a flow state.

Contrast with masculine energy

The feminine is unsurprisingly nurturing.

Whereas its counterpart, the masculine, is seen as assertive.

Some other characteristics of the feminine are intuition, creativity, empathy, gentleness.

Girls taking a group picture after a pole fitness class in "Pole Heights Bucharest"
I love active traveling ! So much fun!

If you find yourself confused just think about the stereotypical way that women tend to be raised in our society.

Generally speaking, us women are raised to be future caretakers whereas many men are raised to be “providers”.

Now I am not here to say this is wrong or right. Politics is also beyond the scope of this guide.

I am only bringing it up as a reference point and to serve as examples in case someone might still be struggling to grasp the feminine archetype.

women retreat group walking in Ubud streets
Just girls heading for dinner

Cultural Perspectives/ Feminine energy in our culture

It goes without saying that the feminine is an integral part of our society. There is just no way we would survive as a species without the creative force of the feminine.

Now I don’t think anyone wants to refute that part.

The only problem is that our patriarchal society hasn’t really valued the feminine side of the equation.

Stef Barti and the girls attending brunch in Yerevan
Girls, we are magic

The feminine continues to be brushed under the rug and its importance minimized.

And we’re all pushed to be on that ultimate masculine energy train.

I personally think that a reason why my fellow ladies are so curious and hungry to restore their feminine is a culmination of years of frustration and feeling so out of touch.

Ladies trip in Armenia, solo female traveling
Women Empowering women: With the lovely ladies at Yerevan’s Republic Square – Next women tours coming up

Signs You May Need to Activate Your Feminine Energy

There are so many advantages to getting back in touch with your feminine energy and reigniting it.

I really believe that it’s a secret well that us women are just naturally born with.

See it as a sort of treasure chest. It is the ultimate fuel source.

If you learn to get in touch with it, it can be an unlimited source for you to replenish yourself. But also for ultimate joy and fulfillment.

bikinis drying from a wellness women retreat
GirlsπŸ’•

Are you Feeling out of touch?

But first, how do you know if you are out of touch?

Here is a little list to help you figure this out.

Feeling overwhelmed or disconnected

I know that we all have a lot on or plate in our every day life.

But if you find yourself feeling extremely overwhelmed and more than usual, that is often a telltale sign.

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Lots of things to consider, But think about your own lifestyle and needs

Neglecting your emotions

So many of us do so on a regular basis.

And it is extremely easy to do, especially because of the ways we were brought up.

If you find yourself extremely drained from relying heavily on logic and reason all the time, this might be a sign.

girlies @stefbarti and @Kamrylorin having fun in cavoeiro
Find you a girl tribe and hold on to it πŸ™‚

A nagging feeling within

You know that nagging feeling inside?

It’s often your own inner voice trying to tell you something.

our gut, our own inner compass

Reconnect with your Feminine Energy

Now we’ve talked about what exactly feminine energy is and that we have a much better understanding.

What’s the next step? What do you do now? How do you reconnect with this insane and magical innate source of energy?

Stef Barti and another solo female traveller enjoying a hot air balloon in Cappadocia
TΓΌrkiye Girls trip

Using Movement and dance to activate that fire within

Thankfully, there are so many ways to revive this.

So do not despair.

As we saw earlier, you need to really learn to make way for your inner child to come out and play more often.

stef barti doing pose fitness at Robean bali
dance and movement is such a perfect way to connect to yourself. radical self love and acceptance

Movement is my favourite way to do this. It is a massive tool to help you tap into your feminine power.

As a dancer myself, I see how much dance and movement change people’s life for the better.

No this is not an understatement when I say that.

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The ladies were so happy after my feminine ecstatic dance workshop

The thing is that dance and movement help to boost your confidence.

This can be a magical tool to allow you to stop overthinking and connect deep into your body.

In our society, we prioritize productivity and numbers way too much. and not enough emphasis is put onto feminine characteristics.

Stef Barti in her dance studio working on a choreography
Just me feeling the music and working on my next choreography

I am talking about intuition, emotional intelligence, respecting nature and the natural order of the life flow.

This is where Dance and movement can really help us change this and mitigate some of that stress.

picture of girls dancing dabke at an Armenian wedding
You can always find me on the dancefloor with my girls wherever I go πŸ™‚

Feminine embodiment & Self Love Practice

Now I am very aware that not everyone is a dancer and that’s exactly why I created my “Unleash your Feminine Power” to help you really start diving into your own unique power.

Stef Barti at a Ubud waterfall springs
It’s time for us women to start appreciating our own magic

In this course, you will learn to connect with your body through some very sensual movements.

There is no fancy choreography to worry about. I really wanted to make this as simple as possible.

The goal is to give you a somatic practice that you can implement into your daily routine in order to start embodying your authentic self.

Stef Barti at a Ubud waterfall springs
Because you are magic and deserve to take care of yourself

It is high time we start prioritizing our relationship with our own body too.

Because in order to be truly happy and content in life, I really believe you need to strike for a balance.

That means feeding your soul, your heart, your body.

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You are magic !

And this is the goal of my ” Unleash your Feminine Power“.

The beautiful thing is that once you start getting in touch with that fire within, it only grows from there.

This energy will go on to light up your path, simultaneously guiding you through life.

So in a way, it is your own inner guiding compass. πŸ’•

Picture of Stef Barti at an Armenian wedding dressed fashionably
It’s time to thrive girlies!

Get in Touch with your feminine today through the self love embodiment practice

Conclusion

I really think that our intuition is our own personal compass, so it’s really a shame how we’ve all been brought up to dismiss it at all cost.

In an ideal world, we would be using both our masculine and feminine energy in tandem.

Stef Barti posing in front of cliff caves close to capoeiro Albufeira Portugal
Don’t ever stop doing cool stuff and having adventures πŸ™‚

I also don’t believe in coincidences.

If you were compelled to research this and stumbled upon my feminine energy blog, It is definitely a sign.

Stef Barti at Ultra Abu Dhabi
Birthday celebration at Ultra Abu Dhabi: YOLO & Dancing it away πŸ™‚

Perhaps it’s a gentle invitation to start that journey within and I am so excited for you.

You can also join our community of women over at my podcast were we’re all committed to improvement and living our best authentic life.

And as I always say, don’t forget my love that you are 1 of 1 😘

Stef Barti at Ultra Abu Dhabi
3 months 1/2 after my hysterectomy

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Stef Barti doing a street photoshoot in Cavoeiro town
Oh, don’t mind me

Women Self Love Wellness Retreat

I am so passionate about women empowerment. Everything I do is based on this. I want to see more women embrace their authentic selves. Trust me life gets so much better.

That’s the main focus of my self love women retreat. In this Wellness retreat, we go deep. I really love to connect with my fellow sisters.

That’s why I only do small groups of 10-12 women.

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This retreat is an invitation to embody your feminine and to dive into radical self love. Growth and shedding past limiting beliefs is the focal point.

We do this through various workshops, wellness practices such as breath work and lots of somatic movement.

picture of stef barti dancing in garden and happy

As a dance teacher, of course we will also be using the power of dance and music to process, release and shed things that are holding us back so we can be born again.

Welcome to our transformational retreat where the focus is all on YOU.

Not only that, but we do it in style and comfort.

villa and hosting place for Stef Barti's Self Love and embodiment women retreat in Malta
The most inviting pool πŸ™‚

Our next retreat is in a breathtaking villa on the beautiful island of Gozo Malta. We will be staying in our own private villa.

And did I mention our own private chef? with our own private pool 🀭.

villa and hosting place for Stef Barti's Self Love and embodiment women retreat in Malta
villa and hosting place for Stef Barti's Self Love and embodiment women retreat in Malta

It is the perfect time to slow down and prioritize yourself.

Also, don’t forget to stay in touch for my Bali self love women wellness retreat, for pure feminine embodiment and lots of dancing also.

Listen to our Women Self love Podcast

There is a whole world waiting for you to discover.

Cheers to your next adventure

On that note, I am leaving you with this popular episode from my women podcast “She thrives” with Stef Barti

  • 19: You need female friends & start prioritizing sisterhood right now

Keep being awesome πŸ™‚

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